Our role as a military spouse is filled with many things, but most importantly it is filled with history. In an era where technology has taken over, we still have much in common with the military spouses of our history. We all have that feeling of despair, loneliness and constant struggle but there is one thing that binds us all, the legacy we leave behind as women of courage and strength. And no matter how much times have changed, we can all say that there is truly a strong connection between us all.

Revolutionary War Spouses (1775–1783)

Believe it or not, the women had a large part in the Revolutionary War. And I am not just talking about staying home, cooking, sewing and caring for the children. The women and spouses of soldiers played a very important role during this time of war. Not only did they help keep the economy flowing by providing local stores with food, but they also joined the army themselves. Some women of this era felt that they could help better by actually helping the army with chores, which is why they had to sign up as soldiers. Obviously it was not accepted for women to serve, therefore many women disguised themselves as men. The influence they had on this war is usually kept hidden, but today it is brought forward with pride and much respect to all these women.

World War II Spouses (1939-1945)

The workload for women was doubled during WWII, just as during the other wars mentioned. They took on the role of their husband’s job as they were fighting. They did anything to help by becoming nurses, war aides, building airplanes and giving out supplies. And at home they were busy being wives, mothers, business women and homemakers. Times were tough and many families had to live together and share rooms during the war. This made it difficult to ration food for such a large amount of people. But they went through it and survived. The women kept the economy flowing as well as the success on the home front. And even though at this time women were still not allowed to join the army, they still did just as much of their part for the war that the men who fought for this country did.

Vietnam War Spouses (1955-1975) 

This war is obviously different than the others, in the sense that this was the first war in which women could actively serve in. But regardless of this, there were still women who stayed at home and maintained the household. And then there were the women who still wanted to help the war effort and volunteered in many areas. As in the other wars, women did not stand behind while the men fought and defended the country. Women ensured that their voice was heard during these times in which the support was needed. During this time, there were not many support groups for spouses of soldiers; so many spouses took matters into their own hands. They formed groups with other spouses and organizations to help spouses of the Vietnam War. And regardless of the politics they stood by and supported their soldiers. We remember and honor these women for their effort and sacrifices made for this country.

Global War on Terror Spouses (2001-Present)

There is no doubt that the Global War on Terror has indeed changed the face of war. The challenges have forced Armed Forces to move quicker and with this being said the constant need for our soldiers to deploy. But as we strive today to keep our homes intact while our soldiers are overseas in combat, we must reflect back and think at just how lucky we are to have technology as we do today. This is definitely an advantage compared to years ago.  And with just one click, we are able to send emails, instant message and chat via webcam. But even with the asset of technology, there are many other obstacles we face today. The obstacles of multiple long deployments, dual-service families and lack of support from the community, put a large strain on families. Spouses today are taking action within Family Readiness support groups and many organizations that support our men and women overseas.

Times may change, but one thing that is for sure is that the bravery, camaraderie and sacrifices of our men and women will not. And as for our spouses, we have etched ourselves slowly into history by our support and contributions to our families and soldiers. We serve our nation just as the men and women in uniform do.